I'm an RA and I'm here to help you settle in!

Whether it’s your first semester or you're returning to campus, moving into uni accommodation is always a fresh start. It’s totally normal to feel a mix of excitement and nerves – especially when it comes to meeting new people.

But don’t stress – I’ve got you covered with solid tips to help you build genuine connections, no matter what time of year it is. As an RA, I’m here to help you settle in and make the most of your time at Leicester.

Let’s jump into some easy, effective ways to make friends in your accommodation!

1. Be Open and Approachable

You don’t need to be the loudest person in the room to make friends. Small gestures go a long way – smile, make eye contact, and say hi when you see someone in the hallway or kitchen.

A simple “Hey, I’m [Your Name] – how’s your week going?” can open the door to a great conversation.

Tip: Join in casual chats in shared spaces – you might have more in common than you think!

2. Join ResLife Events and Socials

ResLife events are made for meeting people in a chill setting – think games nights, food events, movie marathons, or day trips. Even if you don’t know anyone yet, just showing up is a great first step.

RA Insight: I’ll be around at loads of these events, so you’ll always see a familiar face. Come say hi!

3. Get to Know Your Flatmates

Your flatmates are your built-in support system – and your potential besties. Start small by chatting while cooking or relaxing in the common area.

If you're feeling bold, why not host a little get-together? A pizza night, board games, or movie night can bring everyone together without the pressure.

4. Start or Join a Group Chat

Group chats are great for both fun convos and practical stuff like dinner plans, group study sessions, or letting everyone know when the kitchen bin finally got taken out 😂

Pro Move: If there’s no group chat yet – make one! Everyone will appreciate it.

5. Hang Out in Common Areas

Kitchen? Study room? Social space? These are prime spots for spontaneous convos and friendly faces. Even if you’re just passing through, you never know who you might bump into.

6. Join Societies and Clubs

Leicester has so many societies – whether you're into anime, fitness, music, languages, or giving back, there’s something for you.

Don’t worry if you’re joining mid-year – societies welcome new members all year long, and you’ll instantly have something in common with everyone there.

7. Be Patient – Friendships Take Time

Making friends doesn’t always happen overnight, and that’s okay! You might not find your people in the first week – or even the first month – but every little interaction adds up.

Reminder: If you’re ever feeling unsure or isolated, come find your RA (hi 👋🏾) – we’re always around to chat, listen, or help you connect with others.

Final Thoughts

Making friends is all about being open, proactive, and kind to yourself through the process. Everyone else is figuring it out too – so don’t be afraid to take the first step.

This year is full of potential for new friendships, memories, and growth – and I can’t wait to see what it brings for you. If you ever need help, advice, or just someone to talk to, RAs like me are based in reception or just a knock away!

By Khadijah